An evening’s bar-hopping comes at a price – the next day. Waking up with palpable dread after a ‘post-work beer’, and having to stagger into the office with baggy eyes and whisky breath is the last thing you need ahead of wooing a potential client, or an appraisal with your boss. But is there a […]
This world is full of bitches, but there’s a huge difference between someone who’s a bitch and someone who’s being direct. I’ve been guilty of confusing the two quite often, but after much reflection, I have come to realize they’re two completely different breeds. Bitches love to be on top of the world, but a […]
Even though the word ‘’bottoming’’ is mainly associated with the gays, knowledge of it is of crucial importance for girls who love anal sex as well. It is not just lying on your back, waiting for your partner to penetrate you – it is a skill that needs practice and once you’ve mastered it, you […]
You used to love going out to gay bars, but now they’re all the same. They’re filled with the same circuit queens who make you feel insecure about your body, aggressive men who seem willfully ignorant about what consent is, and bitchy queens. I get it. While gay clubs can be a sanctuary to express […]
The greatest motto any human being can have is: “SO WHAT!” Human beings know how to be afraid. We taught ourselves to always be on the lookout for danger—thousands of years running from beasts in our hunter/gatherer days will do that to you. Fear is an evolutionary present from years passed. Some of us have […]
First off, there is something we can all agree on – finding love is not easy. Even though we have all these social media platforms and apps, now more than ever before people are struggling in the romance department. Perhaps we’ve become spoilt by the abundance of choice, but the truth of the matter is, […]
The biggest trait people respect in others is genuineness. It’s hard to find these days because we’re so busy trying to be something else. Authenticity is a quality we all want to be around, but after years of building masks, how can we find courage to let them all go? I’ve learned countless of lessons […]
In my experience, Tinder is way ahead of Grindr. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve come across some pretty nasty guys on both, but because Tinder is connected to social media accounts and shares mutual friends as well as interests, it’s way less anonymous – which makes it easier to find genuine guys. What makes us […]